Adele Raemer’s daughter had dreamed of celebrating her wedding on her kibbutz in Nirim on Israel’s border with Gaza. But the flare-up of fighting between Israelis and Palestinians changed all that and has many local residents feeling insecure. Adele Raemer’s daughter had dreamed of celebrating her wedding on her kibbutz in Nirim on Israel’s border with Gaza. But the flare-up of fighting between Israelis and Palestinians changed all that and has many local residents feeling insecure.