Afghan women say they are ‘dying in slow motion’ after killing of former female MP

Fawzia Koofi: Thank you. These are hard days for everyone in Afghanistan.

She was young when she ran for parliament in 2018, and she was very passionate about her country and about her work. She was very ambitious. She wanted to serve the communities and be connected with the communities. And this was one of the reasons that, despite all the risks, she chose to stay in Afghanistan.

Yeah, she recently texted me after the Taliban ban on women working with NGOs and the UN, requesting to see if there are possibilities for her to leave the country. She was working with an NGO, and after the ban, it was not possible. So, her message was that “it’s getting too much. I want to leave now.”

Not about her safety. Everyone in Afghanistan is unsafe. Women are more unsafe because of their work and because of the fact the Taliban don’t like them, even if they are female students or female teachers or female leaders, they don’t like them. So, every woman in Afghanistan is unsafe. She was more worried about her dreams that were shattered and her work that was no longer possible. Unlike many others who are in contact with me, they tell me that they know they might not survive the day that they start. Every Afghan woman who contacts me now, they tell me that for them [that they are dying] in slow motion. Because if you live, and you’re not recorded as a human being, you’re literally dying in slow motion.

Well, I think initially, she tended to believe the Taliban’s promise in terms of supporting women’s rights. So, like many others who actually were trapped into this narrative the Taliban created, which was Taliban 2.0, pro-woman, etc. So, I think she wanted to give it a chance. But in reality, this is a narrative the Taliban created, and we and our international friends tend to believe it. It was a failed and false narrative.

Well, I feel very bad for not being able to be with them. But I know that even if I was in Afghanistan, I [wouldn’t be] able to do much, because I was already under house arrest when the Taliban came. And I didn’t want to leave. So, I don’t have words when they text me messages or voice messages full of pain and sorrow and emotions asking me to help them leave the country, especially after the Taliban’s two recent bans on women [attending] university and banning women from NGOs. I think literally that was the last nail in the women’s rights coffin. So, everyone wants to leave and there are some who are more at risk, especially my female colleagues, politicians, who are in Afghanistan. Some of them are in Pakistan and Iran. And they are desperate, they are asking me to support them. So, one of Mursal’s colleagues texted me the day before yesterday, the same day that she was killed, and said, “Ms. Koofi, is there a way for me to get out? Who knows? Probably the next would be me.” But the fact is that we can’t get 35 million people out, right? So, we need to really look beyond humanitarian aid and humanitarian visas, and see how politically we can create an alternative for the Taliban, so the Taliban are stopped and they do not last very long. And finally, they agree for a political settlement.

Well, I think it was the right decision to [end] some of this humanitarian aid, because how can your taxpayer’s money go to a group excluding women from the offices? It was difficult for these humanitarian organizations to reach women across Afghanistan, in terms of the recipients. So, I think it was a good decision. As much as it’s difficult and challenging, and I know that economically people are suffering, but I think it was the right decision to do so.

Yeah. When she was elected in 2018, she actually contacted me and she said, “I would like you to mentor me.” And it was very sweet. When you hear that from somebody, it indicated the legacy, but also, you know, her passion to really be meaningfully involved in politics and try to do things for our country.